Married Relationship facts

Married 1862

Her family had wanted him to marry their eldest daughter, Liza, but he had other ideas. He was so shy he proposed to Sofia in code by writing 12 of some words on a card table and asking her to guess the meaning. The scene is recreated in Tolstoy’s novel Anna Karenina when Levin proposes to Kitty for the second time.

Very much in love when they married to the extent that they share their diaries with each other. Over the years their relationship reportedly became tempestuous as their values and beliefs went in different directions. He is reported to have left her when he was 82 after he had written a secret will and caught her searching for it.

One of the World's Literary Giants
Leo Tolstoy

Count Lev Nikolayevich, Graf Tolstoy

Age

82

Born

Thursday 28 Aug 1828

Died

20 Nov 1910

Other Partners

Aksinya Bazykin

Affair

1 child together

affair from about 1856
until circa 1859

Professional Partners

Leo Tolstoy Siblings

Nikolay Tolstoy

Brother

Sergey Tolstoy

Brother

Dmitry Tolstoy

Brother

Maria Nikolayevna Tolstoy

Sister

Other Partners

Professional Partners

Siblings

Wife of Literary Giant Leo Tolstoy
Sophia Tolstaya

Sophia Andreyevna Tolstaya

Age

75

Born

Thursday 22 Aug 1844

Died

4 Nov 1919

His Other Children

Timothy Tolstoy

born 1859 (ca.), age 110 (presumed dead, ca.)
with Aksinya Bazykin

First Son of Author Leo Tolstoy

Children Together

Sergey Tolstoy

born 1863, died 1948, age 85 (approx.)

Second Son of Author Leo Tolstoy

Tatiana Soukhotina-Tolstaya

born 1864, died 1950, age 85

Eldest Daughter of Author Leo Tolstoy

Ilya Tolstoy

born 1866, died 1933, age 67

Third Son of Novelist Leo Tolstoy

Leo Tolstoy

born 1869, died 1945, age 76 (approx.)

Fourth son of Author Leo Tolstoy

Maria Obolenskaya

born 1871, died 1906, age 35

Second Daughter of Author Leo Tolstoy

Petya Tolstoy

born 1872, died 1873, age 1

5th Son of Author Leo Tolstoy

Nikolay Tolstoy

born 1874, died 1875, age 9 months

6th Son of Author Leo Tolstoy

Varvara Tolstaya

born 1875, died 1875, age 0 days

Daughter of Leo Tolstoy

Andrey Tolstoy

born 1877, died 1916, age 38

7th Son of Author Leo Tolstoy

Mikhail Tolstoy

born 1879, died 1944, age 64

8th Son of Author Leo Tolstoy

Alexey Tolstoy

born 1881, died 1886, age 4

9th Son of Author Leo Tolstoy

Alexandra Tolstoy

born 1884, died 1979, age 95

Daughter of Heir of Leo Tolstoy

Ivan Tolstoy

born 1888, died 1895, age 6

10th Son of Author Leo Tolstoy

Her Other Children

Leo Tolstoy
Bio Details

Full name

Count Lev Nikolayevich, Graf Tolstoy

Also known as

Leo Tolstoi

Gender

Male

Age

82

Date of birth

Thursday 28 Aug 1828

Birth place

Yasnaya Polyana, Tula Province, Russia

Date of death:

20 Nov 1910

Place of death

Astapovo, Ryazan province, Russia

Cause of death

Heart Failiure

Occupations

Novelist

Junker (1851)

Education

University of Kazan, Russian Federation (1844 - 1847)

Author of War and Peace and Anna Karenina which are widely considered as 2 of the finest novels ever written.
His first novel, Childhood (the first of his autobiographical trilogy with Boyhood and Youth to follow) was published in 1852 under the pseudonym L.N.  to conceal his identity.
Fought in the Crimean war which is thought to have inspired War and Peace.
His parents came from ancient Russian aristocratic families.  He became increasingly troubled by the privilege this brought him and developed an interest in the lifestyle and culture of the peasantry. This extended to making his own shoes in the traditional peasant way.  He also gambled and gave away away much of his wealth.
Some consider Tolstoy’s essays on peace to have influenced the work of Gandhi in his pursuit of nonviolent resistance,.  Gandhi called Tolstoy "the greatest apostle of non-violence that the present age has produced". 
The family home, Yasnaya Polyana, is now a museum
By the time of his death, Tolstoy was a cultural icon and had followers world-wide. News that he was dying drew huge crowds and news cameras, making his death an international news story. He died at Astapovo trainstation, the same place his fictional character Anna Karenina came to her end.  More than three thousand people lined the streets to see his coffin carried back to his home Yasnaya Polyana.

Trivia

Leo Tolstoy Family

Leo Tolstoy's parents:

Leo Tolstoy's father was Nikolay Tolstoy Leo Tolstoy's mother was Maria Tolstaya


Leo Tolstoy's children:

Leo Tolstoy's son was Timothy Tolstoy Leo Tolstoy's son was Sergey Tolstoy Leo Tolstoy's daughter was Tatiana Soukhotina-Tolstaya Leo Tolstoy's son was Ilya Tolstoy Leo Tolstoy's son was Leo Tolstoy Leo Tolstoy's daughter was Maria Obolenskaya Leo Tolstoy's son was Petya Tolstoy Leo Tolstoy's son was Nikolay Tolstoy Leo Tolstoy's daughter was Varvara Tolstaya Leo Tolstoy's son was Andrey Tolstoy Leo Tolstoy's son was Mikhail Tolstoy Leo Tolstoy's son was Alexey Tolstoy Leo Tolstoy's daughter was Alexandra Tolstoy Leo Tolstoy's son was Ivan Tolstoy


Leo Tolstoy's current partners:

Leo Tolstoy's wife was Sophia Tolstaya


Leo Tolstoy's former partners:

Leo Tolstoy had an affair with Aksinya Bazykin


Leo Tolstoy's siblings:

Leo Tolstoy's brother was Nikolay Tolstoy Leo Tolstoy's brother was Sergey Tolstoy Leo Tolstoy's brother was Dmitry Tolstoy Leo Tolstoy's sister was Maria Nikolayevna Tolstoy


Leo Tolstoy's grandparents:

Leo Tolstoy's grandfather was Nikolai Volkonsky Leo Tolstoy's grandfather was Ilya Tolstoy


Leo Tolstoy's grandchildren:

Leo Tolstoy's granddaughter was Tatiana Albertini Leo Tolstoy's granddaughter was Anna Tolstaya Leo Tolstoy's grandson was Nikolay Tolstoy Leo Tolstoy's grandson was Mikhail Tolstoy Leo Tolstoy's grandson was Andrey Tolstoy Leo Tolstoy's grandson was Ilya Tolstoy Leo Tolstoy's grandson was Vladimir Ilyich Tolstoy Leo Tolstoy's granddaughter was Vera Tolstoy Leo Tolstoy's grandson was Kirill Tolstoy Leo Tolstoy's granddaughter was Sophia Yesenina Leo Tolstoy's grandson was Ivan Tolstoy Leo Tolstoy's granddaughter was Tatiana Lvov Leo Tolstoy's granddaughter was Alexandra Sagatskiy Leo Tolstoy's grandson was Vladimir Tolstoy Leo Tolstoy's grandson was Sergey Tolstoy


Leo Tolstoy's great grandchildren:

Leo Tolstoy's great grandson is Luigi Albertini Leo Tolstoy's great granddaughter is Marta Albertini Leo Tolstoy's great granddaughter is Christina Albertini Leo Tolstoy's great grandson was Oleg Tolstoy Leo Tolstoy's great grandson was Ilya Tolstoy Leo Tolstoy's great grandson is Sergei Tolstoy Leo Tolstoy's great grandson was Sergey Tolstoy


Leo Tolstoy's uncles and aunts:

Leo Tolstoy's aunt was Aline Tolstoy Leo Tolstoy's aunt is Pelagya Tolstoy


Leo Tolstoy's in laws:

Leo Tolstoy's father in law was Andrey Behrs Leo Tolstoy's mother in law was Liubov Behrs Leo Tolstoy's son in law was Michael Sergeevich Soukhotine Leo Tolstoy's daughter in law was Nadine Tolstaya Leo Tolstoy's daughter in law is Nikolai Leonidovich Obolensky Leo Tolstoy's daughter in law was Alexandra Tolstaya


Leo Tolstoy's former in laws:

Leo Tolstoy's former daughter in law was Sophia Tolstaya


Sophia Tolstaya
Bio Details

Full name

Sophia Andreyevna Tolstaya

Maiden name

Sophia Behrs

Also known as

Sofia Tolstoy

Sophia Toltsaya

Sonya Tolstoy

Sonya Tolstaya

Gender

Female

Age

75

Date of birth

Thursday 22 Aug 1844

Date of death:

4 Nov 1919

Place of death

Yasnaya Polyana Tula Oblast, Russia

Trivia

Sophia Tolstaya Family

Sophia Tolstaya's parents:

Sophia Tolstaya's father was Andrey Behrs Sophia Tolstaya's mother was Liubov Behrs


Sophia Tolstaya's children:

Sophia Tolstaya's son was Sergey Tolstoy Sophia Tolstaya's daughter was Tatiana Soukhotina-Tolstaya Sophia Tolstaya's son was Ilya Tolstoy Sophia Tolstaya's son was Leo Tolstoy Sophia Tolstaya's daughter was Maria Obolenskaya Sophia Tolstaya's son was Petya Tolstoy Sophia Tolstaya's son was Nikolay Tolstoy Sophia Tolstaya's daughter was Varvara Tolstaya Sophia Tolstaya's son was Andrey Tolstoy Sophia Tolstaya's son was Mikhail Tolstoy Sophia Tolstaya's son was Alexey Tolstoy Sophia Tolstaya's daughter was Alexandra Tolstoy Sophia Tolstaya's son was Ivan Tolstoy Sophia Tolstaya's step-son was Timothy Tolstoy


Sophia Tolstaya's current partners:

Sophia Tolstaya's husband was Leo Tolstoy


Sophia Tolstaya's grandchildren:

Sophia Tolstaya's granddaughter was Tatiana Albertini Sophia Tolstaya's granddaughter was Anna Tolstaya Sophia Tolstaya's grandson was Nikolay Tolstoy Sophia Tolstaya's grandson was Mikhail Tolstoy Sophia Tolstaya's grandson was Andrey Tolstoy Sophia Tolstaya's grandson was Ilya Tolstoy Sophia Tolstaya's grandson was Vladimir Ilyich Tolstoy Sophia Tolstaya's granddaughter was Vera Tolstoy Sophia Tolstaya's grandson was Kirill Tolstoy Sophia Tolstaya's granddaughter was Sophia Yesenina Sophia Tolstaya's grandson was Ivan Tolstoy Sophia Tolstaya's granddaughter was Tatiana Lvov Sophia Tolstaya's granddaughter was Alexandra Sagatskiy Sophia Tolstaya's grandson was Vladimir Tolstoy Sophia Tolstaya's grandson was Sergey Tolstoy


Sophia Tolstaya's great grandchildren:

Sophia Tolstaya's great grandson is Luigi Albertini Sophia Tolstaya's great granddaughter is Marta Albertini Sophia Tolstaya's great granddaughter is Christina Albertini Sophia Tolstaya's great grandson was Oleg Tolstoy Sophia Tolstaya's great grandson was Ilya Tolstoy Sophia Tolstaya's great grandson is Sergei Tolstoy Sophia Tolstaya's great grandson was Sergey Tolstoy


Sophia Tolstaya's in laws:

Sophia Tolstaya's father in law was Nikolay Tolstoy Sophia Tolstaya's mother in law was Maria Tolstaya Sophia Tolstaya's grandfather in law was Ilya Tolstoy Sophia Tolstaya's grandfather in law was Nikolai Volkonsky Sophia Tolstaya's brother in law was Nikolay Tolstoy Sophia Tolstaya's brother in law was Sergey Tolstoy Sophia Tolstaya's brother in law was Dmitry Tolstoy Sophia Tolstaya's sister in law was Maria Nikolayevna Tolstoy Sophia Tolstaya's husband Leo Tolstoy's aunt in law was Aline Tolstoy Sophia Tolstaya's husband Leo Tolstoy's aunt in law is Pelagya Tolstoy Sophia Tolstaya's son in law was Michael Sergeevich Soukhotine Sophia Tolstaya's daughter in law was Nadine Tolstaya Sophia Tolstaya's daughter in law is Nikolai Leonidovich Obolensky Sophia Tolstaya's daughter in law was Alexandra Tolstaya


Sophia Tolstaya's former in laws:

Sophia Tolstaya's former daughter in law was Sophia Tolstaya